PDA also known as "public display of affection," is an interesting topic. why exactly do we display affection in public? do we do it for the public or for ourselves? it may be done to reassure our partner. or simply a self esteem boost. it very well could be pride? to show others ur not ashamed to be with this person. here is my other question. why do people hate PDA so much? does it make them feel uncomfortable? why does it make them feel uncomfortable? i, on the other hand, envy them. oddly enough my last relationship one of the complaints i had was i wouldn’t let my partner be so opening affectionate with me. he felt i was ashamed of him. yet when i tried to be open he felt i was showing him off. PDA is such a finicky thing. its a good thing i’m single, so i don’t have to ponder over this too much…

its amazing what a four legged creature can do to a human being. both emotionally and of course physically. the effect this little one has had on me in the past 24hrs has been remarkable. I just met Katie today and i now believe i have made a life long friend. oddly enough, 6 hours before i would have told u that the cats name is indeed Cruella the Devil. I have learned the utmost importance of communication and understanding, and have seen a new side of friendship and acceptance. there are few that will understand this post.

(disclaimer* those who don’t understand, i just recently started fostering a 9 month old healing cat and at first was scared of her but now love her)

u feel a little foolish. a little bit of pain. like u were tried on like a pair of clothes. the fit wasn’t perfect yet u didn’t take into consideration that it might stretch after a few wears. you tossed it aside and found better. as fast as things were on they were off. I admit the outfit ur wearing fits u alot better. right size, right color, right material. but don’t u ever wonder about that lost t-shirt. the one left laying on the change room floor?